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Writing Retreat

by Christopher Gronlund on May 24, 2013

Last weekend, a friend and I left our jobs behind on a Friday, said goodbye to our families, and ventured to [almost] east Texas — to a cabin at Cooper Lake State Park.

Our plan was simple: we would write, hike, chat, and write some more. While the hike never happened (we found ourselves content just sitting on some uncomfortable wooden chairs, at a small wooden table, and writing away), it was still a perfect weekend!

What We Hoped to Accomplish

When coming up with a writing retreat, it’s easy to think big. The mighty Mark Finn does an annual retreat much longer (and farther from home) than the one my friend Deacon and I did last weekend. Mark’s retreats are spent in the company of more than one writer, most of whom support themselves writing fiction. It’s something to aspire to, but in our case, it wasn’t important to go anywhere particularly special, far from home, or to stay very long. With both of us being at places in novels where things can go so many ways, it was all about being in a cabin with the person who gets the others’ writing better than anyone.

The cabin.

Traveling (And Writing) Light

Neither of us wanted to drag along a laptop or other gear, but we also didn’t want to write new stuff in notebooks and then have to transfer everything to our systems. Sure, there are pens that know what you’ve written, or we could have just tapped away at our iPhones with our clunky thumbs. In the end, we did write on our iPhones…using Anker Bluetooth keyboards!

Behold, the setup!

A couple people have asked me about this setup. Deacon and I love the keyboards. Twenty bucks, so if something happens to it, it’s not a big financial blow — and they are solid and great to type on. (Disclaimer: I do all writing on laptops, so the feel and size of the Anker Bluetooth Wireless Keyboard feels like a laptop keyboard…just at a better angle.) Granted, the smaller screen of the iPhone doesn’t really allow moving large blocks of text around, so I can’t see editing with this setup, but I’m not sure there’s a better method for traveling light and writing a fresh draft of something for me.

The Writing Setup in the Wild.

Plotting

In addition to hours of writing, I plotted quite a bit. On good old fashioned note cards. I came to realize that I really do know the story I’m writing better than I thought I did. I have another four-day weekend coming up, and I look forward to spending quite a bit of it writing.

I will always love note cards for plotting.

Friendship

It’s funny…I’ve known Deacon for over a decade. I consider him one of the best friends I’ve ever had. We email daily. But with the exception of one dinner together (to discuss a handful of chapters in the novel he’s working on), every time we’ve hung out, it’s been in the company of other friends. It was nice to hop in a car, drive out east for a couple hours, and spend a weekend chatting about anything and everything when we weren’t writing.

It was a nice little road trip.

Finally there.

Deacon remembered a mug. I didn't. I drank coffee from a Tupperware bowl I brought for oatmeal. (I forgot the oatmeal.)

Chillin' near the fire.

Epic Nap Time!

The beds in the cabin were surprisingly comfortable. So comfortable that Saturday after lunch, we both said, “I’m gonna go lie down.” The nap I had was one of the best naps I’ve ever taken. (Worthy enough for its own section in this entry!)

It was an even bigger treat for Deacon. The father of a four-year-old, a three-hour nap without interruption is a very rare thing.

Those are comfy beds!

Odds and Ends

When not writing, napping, or snacking, there was time spent sitting beside a fire, time wandering around down by the lake, time battling spiders, and time talking about how creepy the little light out front was at night.

Kept finding these guys in the cabin.

Deacon was wise to fear that light out front...

Sunday morning, when I got up at 5:30 in the morning to free some processed beer, it sounded like there was an opossum in the bathtub. There wasn’t, though.

There were sounds in the attic.

ANYTHING could have been up there!

There were sounds in the woods (that turned out to be an armadillo that was all like, “Hey, what are you guys doing? Is that beer you’re drinking? I like beer!” It freaked out when I turned a light on to see what it was. (Deacon guessed armadillo, while I thought it was a raccoon until the light went on.)

Great Minds Think Alike

A favorite moment from last weekend: dozing off Saturday night, after chatting about the creepy panel leading to the attic, Deacon mentioned how he’d end the novel I’m working on. He wasn’t going to tell me, but I had to know. It’s not like either of us to tell others how we’d write something that’s not ours, but it’s why Deacon is the only person I’d allow to even entertain how I should do something. After further insistence on my part, Deacon told me what he’d do at the end of the novel I’m writing.

I’m happy to say that it is exactly what I’ve already written!

I’m already looking forward to another retreat next year…

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Taking My Own Writing Advice

by Christopher Gronlund on May 16, 2013

Secluded Cabin

Once upon a time, I posted this entry about making your own mini writing retreat. I admitted that it was an entry about something I’ve never done. That will change this weekend.

Cabin in the Woods

There are only a handful of people with whom I chat about writing. My friend Deacon is the person when it comes to writing chat. (And that’s saying a lot because I chat about writing with Shawn Kupfer a lot these days! Sometimes we even talk about writing on the podcast.)

So this weekend I’m taking my own advice and going with a friend (Deacon) to a cabin in the woods in a state park in east Texas to focus on nothing but writing. (Here’s hoping it’s not like the cabin in The Cabin in the Woods. Deacon and I have already vowed if we stumble upon an old book in a strange language that we will not read from it.)

Why Do This?

Okay, so part of the reason for the weekend is Deacon and I have both been working a lot of overtime at our jobs, and it will be a nice break. I’m sure we’ll sit around a fire and talk about stuff that isn’t all about writing, but mostly — the weekend is about writing. We’re both at points in the novels we’re working on where things can go many different ways. My hope is that I come back to north Texas actually…uhm…knowing how the novel I’m working on actually ends!

Another reason for the retreat: when one is bogged down with day job/life stuff, I think it’s important to put your foot down and claim something…even if it’s just a long weekend. (I plan to take a long weekend at the end of the month, too, so I can hang out with my wife for a block o’ days without any distraction.)

A Good Writing Bud

Every writer needs a good writing bud. (I’m fortunate enough to have a few.) Having that person (or handful of people) you can chat about writing with is a wonderful thing. I’m lucky to be friends with Deacon.

I met Deacon through a small writing group years ago. For over a decade, we’ve talked a lot about writing. We chat about writing almost daily, but rarely hang out in person together. And that’s kind of weird. Outside of seeing Deacon at our writing group for years — and at parties and other places with mutual friends — we’ve only hung out a handful of times.

So part of the weekend retreat is just hanging out with a friend — but Deacon is a friend who knows my writing better than I often know my writing. He gets what I attempt to do unlike anybody else I know. He’s one of the only people I’ll allow to say, “What I’d do, here…” because it’s not his own opinion projected onto my writing…it’s him knowing what I’m trying to do and understanding what I want to do more than I may understand what I’m trying to do.

That’s priceless!

Retreating

So…Friday we head out to a state park in east Texas, hoping to claim Cabin #13. (Yep, they have a Cabin 13!) It’s the most secluded of the cabins in the park, and if it doesn’t end like this (WARNING: Extreme gore, language, and spoilers if you haven’t seen The Cabin in the Woods)…we might make it an annual thing.

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(I’m serious about that link being gory…)

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