Why It Matters
Without the annual retreat, I would still write next weekend. During any given weekend, I can dedicate more time than usual to writing and get as much done as I will next weekend. When you think about it, a Friday afternoon, a full Saturday, and a Sunday morning is not enough time to really make a lot of progress on something as slow-going as a novel.
What matters about next weekend is simply making the time — saying that writing is important enough that I’ll dedicate a weekend to going someplace else to do it. Having one weekend a year where a friend and I allow each other to talk about writing matters. (The usual rule is shut up and write because once you talk too much about a story, why bother writing it?)
Keeping It Simple
When talking about the retreat with friends at work and other places, people say, “Man, that sounds nice…” And they’re right: it is. What they seem to really be saying is this:
I’d like to do something like that. I’d like to go away with some friends for a weekend and record music. I’d like to go away with some friends for a weekend and write, make a game, or sit around on a deck carving things out of wood all day.
They talk about it as though a retreat is out of reach.
We pick a cabin in a state park each year because it’s affordable and free of distractions. About a hundred bucks for lodging, 3 – 6 hours of gas money, food we’d be eating anyway, and…it’s a retreat!
Whatever your thing is, there are few things better than grabbing a friend (or five) and making that thing you love important enough that you make getting away to do it an annual thing…