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Quoting Oneself

February 8, 2015 by Christopher Gronlund 7 Comments

A snowy lane. Quote: "It seems strange, this trend of people online quoting themselves over images in an effort to make it appear as though they are somehow important. Are we really that desperate and arrogant?" - Christopher Gronlund"I saw a social media feed the other night that mostly consisted of images the person made with quotes they came up with. Then I jumped to another network and saw something similar, from someone who — as best as I can tell — is trying to become Gandhi with lots of money.

I’ve seen plenty of wannabe self-help gurus and “social media experts” doing this — people wanting to be viewed as enlightened, only without having much more than these quotes and [often] an outdated website as the basis of their empire.

It strikes me as being on the same level of giving yourself a nickname; it just seems so strange.

I Understand Why They Do It

I know these people create the images in the hope that someone shares them and that more people share them and — soon — people are like, “Who is this person saying such awesome things? I want to follow them and give them money for selling something so banal!”

It just seems so damn smarmy.

"By quoting myself, I hope you all think I'm more than I really am!" - Christopher Gronlund

Weak Words

I think the worst part of this form of attention-seeking is that the quotes are often rather lame. The obvious is stated in such a manner that only someone with a brain injury would think, “Man, that is so inspiring!”

These quotes stick out as flat (think jellyfish decaying on a beach) among things actually worth quoting:

"Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less." -Marie Curie

"Let no man pull you so low as to hate him." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

"I thought how unpleasant it is to be locked out; and I thought how it is worse, perhaps, to be locked in." -Virginia Woolf

"Time to climb!" - Desperate Social Media Guy

Not All Quotes Are Bad

While I am not hellbent on self promotion, there is no shame in promoting things you work hard at making. There’s nothing wrong with reminding people that you have e-books out there; that you podcast and blog and do many other things. There’s nothing wrong with a using a catchphrase or an icon people associate with you.

There’s nothing wrong with sharing quotes people say about the things one does. When I wrote independent comic books and had a pile of quotes from other creators and the New York Times News Service — trust me — I let people know! If someone says something great about what you’re doing, by all means, shout that from the rooftops. (Just not over and over and over to the point you become annoying with it.)

There’s nothing wrong with taking lines from a book you’re writing, a podcast you’re making, or sharing lyrics and other things you’re doing.

Technically, there’s nothing wrong with quoting yourself, even, but when you think about most of the examples above, they are either things said about you or sharing something you’re working at. They are not you trying to make it seem like you’re something you’re not.

Shortcut Society

I know I see things differently when it comes to getting attention online. It’s not that I have any problems with people wanting to build something, but some people seem so desperate to find shortcuts to success. Worse, they try to sell others on this method — often at a cost to both wallet and reputation.

Those with staying power, even those online who are looked to as “thought leaders,” or whatever we’re calling them this week, are people who started what they do because they loved it — not in the hope of being seen as something they really aren’t. And because they loved it, eventually, people began quoting them — not them quoting themselves!

Should we really be so desperate that we’re willing to build a perception of success on such a shoddy foundation?

What the Hell, I Was Bored…

After reading a barrage of these self-made quotes, I was bored and decided to make some of my own.

I hope they inspire you to do great things! 😉

"Wishes on the wind are the allergies of the soul..." - Christopher Gronlund

"This is a bridge. Some say we can all be bridges, but until I can drive my car over you, I'm not buying it..." - Christopher Gronlund

"Goddamn, I need to pee!" - Christopher Gronlund

"Beware the picnic benches..." - Christopher Gronlund

"With slippery hands, a pinky can save the day." - Christopher GronlundUse your pinky, and never drop a phone again!

"Seriously, people -- I need to pee!!!" - Christopher Gronlund

"This is a tree in a lake. It is pretty. I'm guessing it's in New Zealand?" - Christopher Gronlund

"Beware what you tell the wind because the wind has been a big gossip ever since third grade when you told it you had a crush on Johnny Riot and it told everyone on the playground!" - Christopher Gronlund

"This is really small text." - Christopher Gronlund

"Still gotta pee..." - Christopher Gronlund

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Comments

  1. CM Stewart says

    February 8, 2015 at 12:48 pm

    “I could really relate to your quote about ‘allergies of the soul’… and the ‘gotta pee’ quotes – man, those blew me away!” -CM “Florida” Stewart

  2. CM Stewart says

    February 8, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    “White space is my backdrop.” -CM “Florida” Stewart

  3. Christopher Gronlund says

    February 8, 2015 at 12:52 pm

    CM”F”S: That is so very profound, a philosophy stripped to its most base level with such little effort 😉

  4. Brenda says

    August 22, 2016 at 2:05 pm

    My child’s fourth grade teacher quotes herself in her email. The quote is: “I just want to make a difference.” First of all, lame. Second of all, I can’t understand the audacity that she would claim that phrase as her own. Thirdly, she puts her name in parentheses… Like this “I just want to make a difference.” (First Name Last Name). I don’t know what to do and I’m scared.

  5. Jay Marroquin says

    February 9, 2017 at 1:41 pm

    So my friend just gave me a hard time for quoting myself. With the all powerful Google I came across your page. And THANK YOU!! I see the errors of my ways…I NEED to add photos to my quotes!

  6. Christopher Gronlund says

    February 9, 2017 at 1:56 pm

    It looks like you have a photo (or 500) that you could use! 🙂 (Very nice work, btw.)

    Obviously, the post is a bit tongue-in-cheek, but it does strike me as odd when a person claiming some title like “Social Media GuruNinja” (with 10 followers) creates their own quotes in the hope that people share them. (And the quotes so often seem to be shy of, “Reach high!” rather than something original or clever.)

    Thanks for the comment, Jay!

  7. Michelle says

    July 21, 2017 at 1:42 pm

    😂 I actually googled “people who quote themselves” because two people on my Twitter feed just did this. I thought it was pretty weird. Thank you for the affirmation.

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