[A bit of a disclaimer. This post was mostly meant to be a little tongue-in-cheek. It is meant to tease those who try taking an easy route toward becoming a “thought leader” or “influencer” by way of memes — not action. In short, it’s a jokey post.
If you have written a book, spoken to big groups of people, or anything else — by all means — quote that stuff! Hell, even if you’re creating banal quote memes of yourself in the hope that you will be seen as more than you likely are…good luck!
I am no expert. I don’t claim to be any kind of authority on this. It was meant to be a humorous jab at people desperate to be seen as gurus and little more. With that, I hope you enjoy this post…]
I saw a social media feed the other night that mostly consisted of images the person made with quotes they came up with. Then I jumped to another network and saw something similar, from someone who — as best as I can tell — is trying to become Gandhi with lots of money.
I’ve seen plenty of wannabe self-help gurus and “social media experts” doing this — people wanting to be viewed as enlightened, only without having much more than these quotes and [often] an outdated website as the basis of their empire.
It strikes me as being on the same level of giving yourself a nickname; it just seems so strange.
I Understand Why They Do It
I know these people create the images in the hope that someone shares them and that more people share them and — soon — people are like, “Who is this person saying such awesome things? I want to follow them and give them money for selling something so banal!”
It just seems so damn smarmy.
Weak Words
I think the worst part of this form of attention-seeking is that the quotes are often rather lame. The obvious is stated in such a manner that only someone with a brain injury would think, “Man, that is so inspiring!”
These quotes stick out as flat (think jellyfish decaying on a beach) among things actually worth quoting:
Not All Quotes Are Bad
While I am not hellbent on self promotion, there is no shame in promoting things you work hard at making. There’s nothing wrong with reminding people that you have e-books out there; that you podcast and blog and do many other things. There’s nothing wrong with a using a catchphrase or an icon people associate with you.
There’s nothing wrong with sharing quotes people say about the things one does. When I wrote independent comic books and had a pile of quotes from other creators and the New York Times News Service — trust me — I let people know! If someone says something great about what you’re doing, by all means, shout that from the rooftops. (Just not over and over and over to the point you become annoying with it.)
There’s nothing wrong with taking lines from a book you’re writing, a podcast you’re making, or sharing lyrics and other things you’re doing.
Technically, there’s nothing wrong with quoting yourself, even, but when you think about most of the examples above, they are either things said about you or sharing something you’re working at. They are not you trying to make it seem like you’re something you’re not.
Shortcut Society
I know I see things differently when it comes to getting attention online. It’s not that I have any problems with people wanting to build something, but some people seem so desperate to find shortcuts to success. Worse, they try to sell others on this method — often at a cost to both wallet and reputation.
Those with staying power, even those online who are looked to as “thought leaders,” or whatever we’re calling them this week, are people who started what they do because they loved it — not in the hope of being seen as something they really aren’t. And because they loved it, eventually, people began quoting them — not them quoting themselves!
Should we really be so desperate that we’re willing to build a perception of success on such a shoddy foundation?
What the Hell, I Was Bored…
After reading a barrage of these self-made quotes, I was bored and decided to make some of my own.
I hope they inspire you to do great things! š
Use your pinky, and never drop a phone again!
CM Stewart says
February 8, 2015 at 12:48 pm“I could really relate to your quote about ‘allergies of the soul’… and the ‘gotta pee’ quotes – man, those blew me away!” -CM “Florida” Stewart
CM Stewart says
February 8, 2015 at 12:49 pm“White space is my backdrop.” -CM “Florida” Stewart
Christopher Gronlund says
February 8, 2015 at 12:52 pmCM”F”S: That is so very profound, a philosophy stripped to its most base level with such little effort š
Brenda says
August 22, 2016 at 2:05 pmMy child’s fourth grade teacher quotes herself in her email. The quote is: “I just want to make a difference.” First of all, lame. Second of all, I can’t understand the audacity that she would claim that phrase as her own. Thirdly, she puts her name in parentheses… Like this “I just want to make a difference.” (First Name Last Name). I don’t know what to do and I’m scared.
Jay Marroquin says
February 9, 2017 at 1:41 pmSo my friend just gave me a hard time for quoting myself. With the all powerful Google I came across your page. And THANK YOU!! I see the errors of my ways…I NEED to add photos to my quotes!
Christopher Gronlund says
February 9, 2017 at 1:56 pmIt looks like you have a photo (or 500) that you could use! š (Very nice work, btw.)
Obviously, the post is a bit tongue-in-cheek, but it does strike me as odd when a person claiming some title like “Social Media GuruNinja” (with 10 followers) creates their own quotes in the hope that people share them. (And the quotes so often seem to be shy of, “Reach high!” rather than something original or clever.)
Thanks for the comment, Jay!
Michelle says
July 21, 2017 at 1:42 pmš I actually googled “people who quote themselves” because two people on my Twitter feed just did this. I thought it was pretty weird. Thank you for the affirmation.
Cam says
July 14, 2018 at 1:49 amI hope you got that pee thing sorted…
Josh Carter says
August 30, 2018 at 12:48 amI think you are being judgemental! We are not living in the 15th, 19th or 20th century. We’re living in a new digital age. An era of constant change dominated by the attention economy. The world is digitally disrupted! To get someone’s attention in today’s changing business landscape, you have to be creative. It’s not easy! In order to be noticed, you need to find a way to earn that attention. There is nothing wrong with sharing your own quotes. There’s nothing wrong giving yourself a nickname. It’s not bad to create your image or build your personal brand. Again, there’s nothing wrong quoting yourself. You don’t know who is going to be inspired by your quote.
Unfortunately, many people are being fake. It’s not a surprise that some “gurus” have fake followers. Some people buy fake followers just to show the world that they are popular. That’s really sad! Some people, not all, pretend to be something they are not. That’s the real problem! I personally don’t like the materialistic approach of social media money evangelists. They are all over the internet with their ‘Become a millionaire fast’ gospel. Also, the urge to ‘keep up with the Joneses’ is pushing people to oversell themselves on different social media platforms. ‘Overselling yourself’ is a big marketing mistake that people make.
It’s better to let your work speak for itself. It’s all about value creation. If you provide something of value, true people will follow you and share your quotes.
I’d like to finish my comment with the following quotes:
“Attracting attention doesn’t mean that I am desperate.” Me, myself and I
“In an attention economy, marketers struggle for attention. If you don’t have it, you lose.” -Seth Godin, Best-Selling Author of Permission Marketing, Purple Cow, and Tribe
“Your success depends on you. You have to do your own thinking. You have to create your own ideas. You can be elevated and sustained by no man but yourself. You have to build your own monument or dig your own pit.” B.C. Forbes, Founder of Forbess magazine.
Christopher Gronlund says
September 4, 2018 at 6:41 amThanks for the reply, Josh. You might be surprised that we may not disagree on things as much as it may seem. Perhaps some of the humor of the post didn’t come through for you as it did for others. It’s largely directed at the people you mention who pretend being what they are not.
Like you, I don’t believe it’s bad to create an image — if I did, I’d not have written over 600 entries here, recorded over 325 podcasts, and been a featured speaker at tech meetups and conferences.
You say it yourself right here: “It’s better to let your work speak for itself.” That is the very point I’m making in this entry…that it’s best to have others quote you, rather than you quouting yourself because that’s what other lazy marketers and those overselling themselves.
If someone has written an article and links to it from Twitter or something and they include a quote to the piece…that’s great. The people I’m talking about are the people who have bought into the techniques of the very “gurus” it sounds like neither of us particularly like — people who have really done nothing much at all and think a few pithy, banal quotes (that sound like every other gutter-marketer out there), will drive people to their “System for Quick Financial Success” (or some other typical thing about them — not those on the other end).
There’s nothing wrong with trying to attract attention. It should be clear I believe that by the simple fact I write, record, and speak to groups. (Were I not interested in some kind of attention, I’d write in a journal no one sees. (I do that as well.)
Please go back and look at the example I included in this…the one with the famous people in history and then the “Desperate Social Media Guy.” I’m sorry if it’s not clear to you that I’m poking fun at the same gurus and desperate people you apparently are not too fond of as well.
I’ll close with this: you say that in today’s changing business landscape that people have to be creative. I think that’s always been the case — not just today. But it’s why I write novels, record podcasts, and speak to groups of people. It’s why I try finding creative solutions to problems as a technical writer. It’s why I love role-playing games and photography and music and so many other things.
I think where we differ is I don’t see much creativity in someone who took some “guru’s” advice and comes out on day one making a handful of images with weak quotes like:
“Make today the day!”
– Desperate Social Media Guy
Esther Bautista says
September 24, 2018 at 3:23 pmāI feel like Iām in a cult. A self-promoting and quoting cult. Perhaps now is the time to drink the kool-aid.ā Anonymous (me)
Anonymous says
June 10, 2019 at 4:13 pmSo i’m an aspiring author. I am writing somewhat of self-help book that gives advice based on subjects I’m certified and educated enough to speak on. I have taken what I consider to be thought-provoking, quotes out of my book and posted them.
The dilemma is, do I risk coming across as someone who is self-absorbed as to not give people the wrong impression lest i turn them off, or do I leave my quote hanging out to dry?
I have had several dozen people share my quote and who have remarked that they found it inspirational. So knowing that my quotes are intended for a wide audience, does it not behoove me as a writer to self-promote in that way? Is it really that annoying?
Christopher Gronlund says
June 20, 2019 at 8:09 amThe post about quotes was really a humorous jab at those (mostly in the tech or self-help communities) who really don’t have much behind them, so they take the shortcut to becoming “thought leaders” through memes…instead of action.
Writing a book is action. By all means, do whatever you can to promote what you’re doing!
I’m no authority. Even though I find the fame-through-meme tactic weak, everyone is free to do what they want. The point of this entry was to sort of lampoon people who see someone making money speaking or through a podcast or something and trying to attain that overnight through desperate moves. Again, they are well within their rights to do so, but there is usually little substance behind them.
Quotes from a book, a speech…anything like that, is something built on action. There is something more behind it than a get-rich-quick scheme.
The people I’m teasing in this entry are those who try something for a short time and then rush to the next thing, all in a desperate attempt to be seen as something more than they are, all in a cash-grab and desire for fame.