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Quitting Writing (Sort Of…)

May 6, 2021 by Christopher Gronlund 14 Comments

A person stands at the end of a concrete pier while staring at a roiling ocean.

[The short version: I’m done submitting novels to agents and publishers. The current novel seems to have run its course. Because it’s the first book of three and I want to finish the series, I will. (Many writers set a series aside at this point because you don’t get to sell a series on a second or third book. But I don’t want to start something new in the hope it’s “the book that sells,” so I’ll keep writing.) I have an outlet at Not About Lumberjacks, so I’m obviously not quitting all writing…just hoping for traditional publication. If you want to know more, read on…]

I’m Done

I’m done trying to sell fiction by traditional means.

I take rejection remarkably well, but I’ve reached a point where I’m tired of the chase. It doesn’t make me happy. And that rush to the next thing after rejection in the hope it will be your big break is tiring.

I appreciate all the agents, publishers, and even producers who have said, “Hey, this is great writing. This is a wonderful and ambitious project, but I don’t know how I’d sell it.” And I understand well-meaning people who respond to that with, “Then just write something more marketable!”

But the chase, the unsolicited advice, and the time involved steals joy from a thing I love…and I’m done.

There’s a bit more to it than that, though…

The Problem with a Series [that Doesn’t Sell]

Normally, I would gladly jump to the next book, writing it in the hope that things work out and I finally finish a story someone feels they can sell. But…the book that’s made its recent rounds is the first in a series.

Many writers at this point set things aside and work on their next idea. If you say to agents and editors, “Hey, I’ve just completed the second book in a trilogy and I hope you like it,” it is [naturally] met with, “What was wrong with the first book that it didn’t sell?”

So I would never fault writers who jump away from a series they love to the next thing that might potentially sell. If one’s goal is to make money, then you focus on the next project that might do so — not necessarily the story of your heart.

But in my case, this tale about a girl born in a circus in the 1920s and her rise to fame as a magician in the 40s and 50s is something I want to see through.

So I will keep writing…

What Lies Ahead

I will still write stories for Not About Lumberjacks, and may even create a separate RSS feed, there, for longer works. (I have other novels and novellas agents loved, but had no idea how to sell.)

So, I’m not quitting writing…just quitting the chase for traditional publication.

In No Way Wasted

If you’ve read enough entries, here, you know a friend and I take a long weekend each spring for an annual writing retreat in East Texas. (We just resumed the annual retreat this week — you can read a recap here.)

My friend Deacon often knows what I hope to do with my writing (and what I want from it all) more than I do. In writing and in our friendship, the guy has a knack for saying the right things at the right time.

Deacon plays guitar, and I tinker around on a mandolin. Not too long ago, we were texting about how there are things we play well…and things we stumble through.

So many people want to do creative things, but never do because they feel they must be perfect from the start. While talking about playing music (including discussions about sometimes playing terribly), Deacon said something so beautiful and perfect:

Music goes into the air and disappears, and it is in no way wasted.

Close Calls and What is “Wrong”

I’ve had enough close calls to know what I write is good.

I’ve had agents representing some of the biggest writers alive read 10 pages of what I’ve written and request the next 50…and then the entire manuscript. (That means there’s at least something there.)

I once had an agent tell me they knew by the second chapter that they would not represent the book I sent them because it was weird (it’s been compared to the TV shows Twin Peaks and Northern Exposure), but they finished the damn thing because it interested them.

I can tell you what is “wrong” with the novel I just mentioned (there are multiple storylines, and it is bizarre in places). I can tell you what is “wrong” with the novel I’ve been shopping around recently (it’s literary, but then…in comes some real magic — it doesn’t hide its fantastic elements).

It would be easy to write novels I know might have a better chance at publication, but where’s the fun in that?

These are the right novels for me to write.

The Norm

I have spent thirty-two years taking writing seriously. It would be easy to say it is time wasted; after all, I didn’t sell the three novels I submitted along the way (and a fourth is tucked away in a filing cabinet). Many people would consider that failure, but I know it’s not.

We sell a story in the U.S.: “Work hard, pursue that passion, and all good things are destined to follow.”

But that’s the exception, not the norm.

Some of the greatest art and stories by people were not seen until they were long dead, and I’m certain there are countless great works of art that never see more than a handful of eyes before fading away and lost to time.

That is the norm.

In No Way Wasted

I could look back on thirty-two years of effort and say I failed…except I know I haven’t.

I’ve become the writer I dreamed of becoming when I was younger. I have made friends through writing I never imagined I’d know (even more, never imagined would view me as a contemporary). I have a place where the quirky stories I’ve written are heard and read by people I don’t know.

It’s not-so-bad.

Sure, one might argue I’ve written many words that have gone into the air and disappeared, but — just like music — it is in no way wasted…

* * *

Image: Joshua Earle

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Comments

  1. Curtis Hart says

    May 6, 2021 at 10:24 am

    How f’d up is it when a publisher finishes your book because it hooked him, but he can’t ‘sell’ it.

    Have you ever considered self-publishing, like on-demand or something? I thought I’ve seen things like this through Amazon or similar. Or is it even worth it?

  2. Christopher Gronlund says

    May 6, 2021 at 10:33 am

    Yeah, it’s weird to like a thing and pass, but…I get that some agents have relationships with certain publishers wanting specific things. So they might like a thing quite a bit, but…they know the people they sell to probably won’t. They make 100% of their income from commissions on sales (agents get 15% of what a book makes), so it makes sense that they take on projects they feel are likely to sell.

    I self-published Hell Comes With Wood Paneled Doors and it made a little bit of money. But if I factor in time spent getting it ready, it was a loss.

    Literary fiction doesn’t do as well when self-published, and to pay an editor or even just a proofreader what they deserve means a likely loss, just to say, “Hey, I have a thing out there.”

    So I’ll likely record and release it on Not About Lumberjacks at some point.

  3. James says

    May 6, 2021 at 11:17 am

    “In no way wasted” is such a good way to think about that. I’ve written plays that were performed two or three times, and will never see a stage again, and it breaks my heart a little bit each time. But you’re right, it never feels like I wasted my time writing them.

    Glad to hear you’re sticking to writing what you love, and I hope you find a home for your series.

  4. Lisa Eckstein says

    May 6, 2021 at 12:22 pm

    I admire you having the awareness to recognize what in the process is and isn’t worth it to you. And I appreciate you sharing all these thoughts. I look forward to A Magic Life eventually, in whatever form!

  5. Christopher Gronlund says

    May 6, 2021 at 12:37 pm

    Thanks so much, James. I’m glad you at least got to see some of your plays performed. Obviously, I hope you see more produced in the future and success with all you do. You’ve always been a favorite writer I’ve happened upon on Twitter.

  6. Christopher Gronlund says

    May 6, 2021 at 12:39 pm

    Thanks, Lisa. I’d be happy to share the manuscript with you if you’re in a reading mood…or you can wait until it eventually finds its way onto Not About Lumberjacks.

  7. Lisa Eckstein says

    May 6, 2021 at 3:56 pm

    Not right now, but let’s talk later in the summer!

  8. Larry Tubbs says

    May 7, 2021 at 10:42 am

    I hope this realization frees you to write what you feel rather than what you think agents or publishers might buy. Love you man!

  9. Christopher Gronlund says

    May 7, 2021 at 10:50 am

    Thanks, Larry. My problem (if we can call it that) is that I’ve always written what I wanted. But you’re right: it’s even more freeing at this point because it has crossed my mind that perhaps I could write something without any of the elements I enjoy including in books. I’ve definitely written my fair share of fully literary stories, but where novels are concerned…I tend to bring in fantastic elements.

    With the current book: it was my intent to write a straight-forward literary/historical novel. Not because I thought, “It will have better odds,” but because that’s what knocked around in my head. But as I got into it, I had fun toying with some genre elements and ran with it. It felt like what was best for the story, and adds to it all. So…I’ll just keep at it because I really love it and know others will, too 🙂

  10. K.J. Mecklenfeld says

    May 7, 2021 at 2:07 pm

    Hey, Chris,

    The idea of the series sounds very interesting. I am glad that you do not give up writing it and I am sure that it will be published some day.
    Maybe it is not what you want to hear right now (haha) but I would suggest that you send the first chapters of the first book at least once a year to a selected list of publishers and/or agents (when you take a break from writing, let’s say).

    Good luck in any case and keep writing,
    K.J. 🙂

  11. Christopher Gronlund says

    May 7, 2021 at 2:40 pm

    Thank you, and — of course — I appreciate the advice! While I may shift even more toward my fiction podcast, I’ve not given up hope this particular story will never be published. If anything, I’m not thinking more about how to do more with the podcast, eventually release this story, and hope to get attention that way.

    I have a friend who has had a literary agent represent him based on an audiodrama he released — as well as a non-fiction agent for a science podcast. Further, a couple acquaintances have had agents come to them — one, currently navigating through a TV deal based on a podcast they do.

    And I plan to finally ask a couple people who have offered help in the past for help before considering doing more with recording this story. Like you, I have faith it will get there.

    I believe what threw agents I queried were the building genre elements. I might even take back what I said at the beginning of this post and consider rewriting the query letter and pitching it to agents representing genre fiction with strong literary elements.

    I know it will be out there in some format, and I’m excited about taking my fiction podcast a bit more seriously.

    I hope all is well with you!

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