{"id":7473,"date":"2018-09-14T09:53:37","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T14:53:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=7473"},"modified":"2018-09-14T09:55:21","modified_gmt":"2018-09-14T14:55:21","slug":"on-simple-joys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2018\/09\/14\/on-simple-joys\/","title":{"rendered":"On Simple Joys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7474\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/chain.jpg\" alt=\"Chain links\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/chain.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/chain-300x201.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/chain-768x515.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<pre>Happiness\r\nby\r\nCarl Sandburg\r\n\t\r\nI asked the professors who teach the meaning of life to tell\r\n     me what is happiness.\r\nAnd I went to famous executives who boss the work of\r\n     thousands of men.\r\nThey all shook their heads and gave me a smile as though\r\n     I was trying to fool with them\r\nAnd then one Sunday afternoon I wandered out along\r\n     the Desplaines river\r\nAnd I saw a crowd of Hungarians under the trees with\r\n     their women and children and a keg of beer and an\r\n     accordion.\r\n<\/pre>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>I read two things this morning that made an already good day even better&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Link One<\/h2>\n<p>The first thing I stumbled upon that I loved was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.muddycolors.com\/2018\/09\/art-and-the-pursuit-of-joy\/\">this piece by artist, Howard Lyon<\/a>, about the joy of doing something simply for the sake of losing yourself in a thing.<\/p>\n<p>The Gist: A professional artist in Italy with his wife comes across someone painting in the streets, and that artist &#8212; an amateur &#8212; ends up being <em>the<\/em> artist the professional remembers&#8230;even more than all the works of masters seen on the trip.<\/p>\n<p>I like this because I have enjoyed the work of many artists few people will ever see&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>A Tale of Two Artists<\/h2>\n<p>My wife is an artist, and she no longer does art for money. Money stole the joy from what she did. To this day, some people <em>still<\/em> tell her, &#8220;You should do this for money!&#8221; or &#8220;You should do that for money!&#8221; &#8212; as though it&#8217;s never crossed her mind before; as though the art that makes her happy is somehow lesser art because it&#8217;s not typical and making her money.<\/p>\n<p>I understand (and admire) my wife&#8217;s stance on the kind of art she prefers creating vs. the kind of art others think she should do.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7486\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/gloin.jpg\" alt=\"Gloin, by Cynthia Griffith\" width=\"644\" height=\"819\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/gloin.jpg 644w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/gloin-236x300.jpg 236w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 644px) 100vw, 644px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.deviantart.com\/cfgriffith\/gallery\/\">Click here<\/a> to see more of Cynthia&#8217;s artwork.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Late in my uncle&#8217;s life, he came to Texas from New Mexico to live with my mother. Somewhere along the way, he started painting.<\/p>\n<p>While he did not become a <em>great<\/em> artist in the few years he painted before he died, he consistently got better. More than that, though: he found joy in what he did.<\/p>\n<p>I have a small piece he did on the bookcase behind me. Sure, some might look at it and say the perspective is off or find other faults in the work, but it&#8217;s one of my all-time favorite pieces of art. In the trees especially, I can see my uncle&#8217;s joy in creating this quirky little painting the size of a book.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7475\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/ubpainting.jpg\" alt=\"Tree painting by Robert (Bob) Salerno\" width=\"644\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/ubpainting.jpg 644w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/ubpainting-242x300.jpg 242w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 644px) 100vw, 644px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/ubpaintingclose.jpg\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a> to see a neat close-up.<\/p>\n<h2>Link Two<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/austinkleon.com\/2018\/09\/14\/paper-monuments-to-human-effort\/\">This entry by Austin Kleon<\/a> is the second link I came across this morning that I loved.<\/p>\n<p>The Gist: It&#8217;s about piles of paper &#8212; mostly in the form of journals (but also one featuring David Letterman and stacked paper cups) &#8212; being a testament to human effort.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an admirable goal: to create a pile of something that brings you joy. Whether it&#8217;s a physical representation, or comes in the form of memories of acts you loved doing, you are fortunate if you have a thing or two you love and make sure you do those things with a certain regularity.<\/p>\n<p>Those acts are not just <em>enough<\/em>, but often major things that make a life worth living.<\/p>\n<h2>Simple Joys<\/h2>\n<p>As I write this, my wife is in the other room playing her harp.<\/p>\n<p>She will never be on a huge stage playing for thousands of adoring fans (performing is not her goal), but hearing her figuring out new tunes (and playing those she&#8217;s already taught herself to play) makes both of us happy.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2018\/04\/09\/on-repeated-success-with-creative-endeavors\/\">I bought a mandolin this year<\/a>, and few things in life make me as happy as playing music with my wife. (She also plays fiddle &#8212; among other things.)<\/p>\n<p>No matter how hectic the rush of days gets, there are always simple joys to be found.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I find it early in the morning in the writing I do.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s there after work when I sometimes appreciate a drink (or two) with my wife &#8212; or the occasion that I go out for a couple beers during the week with friends.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s time spent crowded around a table with friends whom I consider family playing Dungeons and Dragons.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s there recording podcasts with friends.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s evening walks with my wife, or something as simple as heading out to get breakfast on a dark and clear morning (today) and thinking, &#8220;I bet Orion should be right about&#8230;there!&#8221; and seeing a favorite constellation for the first time this season.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s journals &#8212; both electronic and physical &#8212; piling up; not because I think I have anything important to say, but because I take great joy in using my mind to think about more than just making money at a day job that sometimes requires overtime and ends up stealing my thoughts.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">It&#8217;s time hiking or canoeing; time spent juggling and reading.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Joy is everywhere if you dedicate yourself to seeking it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7482\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/joyous-play.jpg\" alt=\"Children playing\" width=\"800\" height=\"554\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/joyous-play.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/joyous-play-300x208.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/joyous-play-768x532.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Chain photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@jjying\">J.J. 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