{"id":7344,"date":"2018-05-29T08:23:35","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T13:23:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=7344"},"modified":"2018-05-29T08:23:35","modified_gmt":"2018-05-29T13:23:35","slug":"looking-back-on-a-good-10-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2018\/05\/29\/looking-back-on-a-good-10-days\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking Back on a Good 10 Days"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7345\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/window-sitter.jpg\" alt=\"Person silhoutted while sitting in a window.\" width=\"800\" height=\"470\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/window-sitter.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/window-sitter-300x176.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/window-sitter-768x451.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t take time off from work, but it&#8217;s rare that I take full weeks off.<\/p>\n<p>Long weekends happen somewhat frequently, but in over 5 1\/2 years where I work, most weeks off have been stacked around Thanksgiving.<\/p>\n<p>Taking last week off [I think] was the first time I&#8217;ve taken a week off outside of November at this job.<\/p>\n<h2>The Effect of Work on Time Away<\/h2>\n<p>I once overheard a group of coworkers talking about how they didn&#8217;t like three-day weekends.<\/p>\n<p>Because I work for an international company, while we get days like Memorial Day off in the United States, others working around the world for the company don&#8217;t. For many, knowing people are working &#8212; and sending email &#8212; is a source of great stress for many (to the point it&#8217;s all they think about when they have time off).<\/p>\n<p>Many (maybe even most) have work email on their phones, so they check frequently during their time away.<\/p>\n<p>For these coworkers, a full 10 days out of the office like I had is a source of great stress.<\/p>\n<p>For me, though &#8212; I know email will be there. I did my best to ensure I had a lot of things done before my time away. And the world would still spin on its axis even if there was an emergency needing my attention that I wasn&#8217;t there to work through.<\/p>\n<p>It was a good 10 days&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Time in My Head<\/h2>\n<p>It should be obvious to anyone reading this blog with regularity that I keep myself busy. I&#8217;ve never been one who needed a job to fulfill a sense of worth. Between writing and hobbies and simply enjoying time just lying on the couch and thinking about nothing at all, I never have reason to be bored.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d be lying if I said during a busy work week that work doesn&#8217;t sometimes creep into my head. (Mostly in the form of my subconscious working on solving problems that aren&#8217;t at first apparent.) Last week, I put work out of my head and enjoyed a sense of peace that was rather wonderful. Normally, I&#8217;m aware of how much I enjoy just lying on the couch in the early evening, or just sitting with a cup of coffee in the morning in my little office-y space.<\/p>\n<p>Last week came with a strong sense of simply being. I usually only feel like that when I&#8217;ve been laid off and know things are covered and that there&#8217;s only so much I can do, so just enjoy the time that I have not working. I fell into that routine for most of the week.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, there were some things I had to do during the week that felt like tasks on a list, but for the most part, my days were my own, and they were filled with a slow pace my wife and I love.<\/p>\n<h2>Writing<\/h2>\n<p>I think many writers who have time off look back at the end and think, &#8220;I should have written even more.&#8221; With <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2018\/05\/23\/the-sixth-annual-writing-retreat\/\">a writing retreat<\/a> (that&#8217;s really <em>not<\/em> about word count) and all that time, I&#8217;m sure I <em>could<\/em> have written more, but what I wrote was very solid, and I have a little over 7,000 new words to show for the time.<\/p>\n<p>I did not write every day, but I&#8217;m not sure that was my goal. That&#8217;s the thing: I went into the time off simply thinking, &#8220;I have the writing retreat. I will spend time with my wife. And I will write. Maybe do an extra thing or two in addition to it all&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s exactly what I did.<\/p>\n<h2>There&#8217;s Really No Point to This Entry&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>I suppose I could have <em>not<\/em> written this entry, and been fine.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes old entries have a way of popping up in the future, and it&#8217;s always nice to remember slow and nice times away from the rush of everyday life.<\/p>\n<p>(So perhaps there is a point to all this after all&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Photo by<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@noahsilliman\"> Noah Silliman<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t take time off from work, but it&#8217;s rare that I take full weeks off. Long weekends happen somewhat frequently, but in over 5 1\/2 years where I work, most weeks off have been stacked around Thanksgiving. 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