{"id":7207,"date":"2017-12-20T12:45:04","date_gmt":"2017-12-20T18:45:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=7207"},"modified":"2017-12-20T12:45:04","modified_gmt":"2017-12-20T18:45:04","slug":"three-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2017\/12\/20\/three-things\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Things"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7210\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-lights.jpg\" alt=\"Three lightbulbs\" width=\"800\" height=\"477\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-lights.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-lights-300x179.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-lights-768x458.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>The number three is an important number to me. Not for any metaphysical reason, but because I juggle, and most people agree that when you can keep three things going in <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ByBXQiTnW9k\">the basic cascade pattern<\/a>, you have successfully juggled.<\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t go as far as saying I live my life in threes, but it&#8217;s a number I quite like.<\/p>\n<p>Add more than a few things to a to-do list, and you&#8217;re more likely to be overwhelmed and not do a single thing you planned to do. Focus on more than a few things at a time, and it&#8217;s unlikely any of the the things you&#8217;re doing are done well.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty simple, really.<\/p>\n<h2>Three Things for a New Year<\/h2>\n<p>Some years ago, I stumbled upon <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cc-chapman.com\">C.C. Chapman<\/a> talking about not making new year&#8217;s resolutions, but &#8212; instead &#8212; focusing on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cc-chapman.com\/tag\/3words\/\">three words to live by in the next year<\/a>. (It&#8217;s an idea he got from another person, who probably got it from someone else.)<\/p>\n<p>I quite like it, and it&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve done that led to sticking with some things that might have been easy to drop behind the excuse of, &#8220;I&#8217;m so busy with other things&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This year, though, the three things hanging around in my head are more than single words.<\/p>\n<h2>Regarding Habits<\/h2>\n<p>A couple years ago, <em>Publishers Weekly<\/em> shared some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.publishersweekly.com\/pw\/by-topic\/industry-news\/tip-sheet\/article\/68301-5-writing-tips-william-h-gass.html\">writing tips from William H. Gass<\/a>. With Gass&#8217; recent passing, it was a good time to revisit some things he said. And while the first bits of advice from the piece seem random, it&#8217;s the randomness of three words that have been sticking around in my head this month:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Habits like iron.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>2017 was a year some of my habits slid. While I can look back and say I knocked out quite a bit of personal work I&#8217;m proud of, day job work and some other things got in the way of usual habits.<\/p>\n<p>Since September, when a laid-off tech writer&#8217;s job became my job (on top of my usual job), habits like waking up early slipped. Many good habits slipped, and it&#8217;s only been during the last several weeks that they have vaguely returned.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not rushing out to get a tattoo of an anvil with HABITS LIKE IRON written on it, but &#8220;Habits like iron,&#8221; is a great motto for the next year.<\/p>\n<h2>All Hail the Meat Suit<\/h2>\n<p>I follow a fair amount of adventurers on Twitter. It&#8217;s always a nice reminder that while I&#8217;m doing my thing, others are out doing their things and sharing their adventures with others.<\/p>\n<p>One of the people I always love seeing share their adventures is <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/BrazenBackpack\">Emily Pennington<\/a>. I loved this tweet from earlier today:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">I saw Hamilton last night and felt the soft tug of my body missing dance and circus arts, a world I am all too familiar with. I love the expansiveness of fully expressing my limbs in every direction. I cannot relax without utterly exhausting my meat suit. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/climber?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#climber<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/mountaineering?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#mountaineering<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/c2V16BqCHY\">pic.twitter.com\/c2V16BqCHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Emily Pennington (@BrazenBackpack) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/BrazenBackpack\/status\/943494207032901633?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 20, 2017<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>One of the things I told myself I would do in 2017 is successfully juggle 7 things again. Emily talking about circus arts reminded me of that, and what it felt like when juggling was something I did for hours each day.<\/p>\n<p>I choose to do other things with the time I have, so juggling for hours every day is not something I&#8217;m willing to do anymore. But&#8230;I can definitely juggle more than I currently do, as well as hit more trails and live a bit more by this line:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I cannot relax without utterly exhausting my meat suit.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>The Necessary Silence<\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve read this blog more than a couple times, it&#8217;s no surprise that I <em>adore<\/em> silence. (Stillness may be a better concept, when I think about it.)<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s only in silence that I get writing done. I read in silence. It&#8217;s not uncommon for my wife and I to walk in silence on our evening strolls (or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2017\/10\/18\/the-little-red-canoe\/\">paddle our canoe in silence<\/a>). Most of the time, I even drive in silence.<\/p>\n<p>Today I read one of the better things I&#8217;ve read all year: <a href=\"https:\/\/thewalrus.ca\/digital-distraction-is-bad-for-creativity\/\">an essay about distraction by Steven Heighton<\/a>. The title would have you believe it&#8217;s all about digital distractions vs. creativity, but it&#8217;s about so much more. And I&#8217;m going to spoil the last two lines of the piece, because if there&#8217;s anything I want to carry through 2018, it is this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Walk away and find enough of the necessary silence now.<br \/>\nThe sun is lower in the sky than it looks.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7211\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-sun.jpg\" alt=\"Setting sun\" width=\"800\" height=\"430\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-sun.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-sun-300x161.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/wp-content\/upLoads\/3things-sun-768x413.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The number three is an important number to me. 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