{"id":3160,"date":"2011-09-11T07:00:15","date_gmt":"2011-09-11T12:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=3160"},"modified":"2011-09-10T22:46:21","modified_gmt":"2011-09-11T03:46:21","slug":"a-month-without-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2011\/09\/11\/a-month-without-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"A Month Without Social Media"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"A sundial.\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/images\/sundial.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"371\" \/>Originally, tomorrow morning would have been the day &#8212; the day that I went back to Facebook, Twitter, and Google+.<\/p>\n<p>Four weeks ago on my personal Facebook account, I mentioned that I was <em>thinking <\/em>about taking a 30-day social media break. Friends dared me to do it, and 30 days became 50. After being dared by <a title=\"Link to C.M. Stewart's blog.\" href=\"http:\/\/cmstewartwrite.wordpress.com\/\">C.M. Stewart<\/a> to go 100 days, it will now be late November before I log back on to any social networks.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve made it a month so far&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>This Week, Not So Bad<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><a title=\"Link to The Juggling Writer entry about going 3 weeks without social media.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2011\/09\/04\/three-weeks-without-social-media\/\">Last week<\/a>, I mentioned that I miss social networks on Saturday mornings. It wasn&#8217;t until later in the day, yesterday, that I realized I didn&#8217;t have the usual Saturday morning urge. I woke up, chatted with my wife, and wrote. I worked a little bit, too. And I relaxed and read.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t until getting ready to visit somebody Saturday evening that it dawned on me: I didn&#8217;t even <em>think <\/em>about Facebook, Twitter, or Google+ for most of the day.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Progress Report<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>While I&#8217;m back on another pressing project at work, I&#8217;m still working on revising my second novel for an ebook, as well as doing some other writing. I have this weeks&#8217; blog entries written and ready to go. I shot video for some extra Juggling Writer entries. And I still had time to sit around doing nothing.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying social media sites took up so much time that I now have tons of <em>extra <\/em>time, but I <em>did <\/em>spend a good hour or so each day on social media sites. Since I&#8217;ve always made time for writing and relaxing, the extra hour or so makes the time I already set aside seem that much longer. I never realized how quickly the stresses of, &#8220;I need to do this, or that,&#8221; creep in &#8212; even subconsciously.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;must get ready for work!&#8221; feeling in the morning stays away a bit longer, and it takes even longer to get to the &#8220;time for bed!&#8221; feeling in the evening.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s nice.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>When It&#8217;s Been Hard<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>When I found out that <a title=\"Dube Juggling Equipment's Twitter feed.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/dubejuggling\">@dubejuggling<\/a> wished <em>The Juggling Writer<\/em> a happy two-years, I really wanted to log on to Twitter and say thanks. It&#8217;s still in the back of my head to do just that <em>one <\/em>thing.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a member of a great <a title=\"Link to the DFW WordPress meetup.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.meetup.com\/dfwwp\">local WordPress users&#8217; group<\/a>. During monthly meetups, the group communicates almost exclusively through Twitter. (#dfwwp.) It&#8217;s hard to ignore that.<\/p>\n<p>In mid October comes the big test: I&#8217;ll be attending <a title=\"Sign up for PodCamp Dallas.\" href=\"http:\/\/podcampdallas.eventbrite.com\/\">PodCamp Dallas<\/a>. Especially during tech conferences, nothing seems to beat Twitter for seeing what&#8217;s going on and for communicating with everybody. Last-minute changes and impromptu gatherings are usually passed along through Twitter. October 15 will be a tough day.<\/p>\n<p>It was also strange for<em> The Juggling Writer<\/em> to turn two without mentioning it on social media sites.<\/p>\n<p>But those are the few times it&#8217;s been hard. Each week, it gets a little easier.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Next Month<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>So there it is: one month without social media!<\/p>\n<p>It took some getting used to, but I&#8217;m writing, blogging, and relaxing more. There&#8217;s a little bit of a reclusive side to not being connected, but I&#8217;m also reminded of how into social media I was when somebody hears what I&#8217;m doing and they tell me, &#8220;I&#8217;d DIE without Facebook!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still alive, and maybe even living a bit better than I was a month ago&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Originally, tomorrow morning would have been the day &#8212; the day that I went back to Facebook, Twitter, and Google+. Four weeks ago on my personal Facebook account, I mentioned that I was thinking about taking a 30-day social media break. Friends dared me to do it, and 30 days became 50. 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