{"id":2981,"date":"2011-09-01T13:25:42","date_gmt":"2011-09-01T18:25:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=2981"},"modified":"2011-09-01T13:28:12","modified_gmt":"2011-09-01T18:28:12","slug":"i-dare-you-to-take-a-social-media-break","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2011\/09\/01\/i-dare-you-to-take-a-social-media-break\/","title":{"rendered":"I Dare You to Take a Social Media Break"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"A grasshopper high above an airport--about to jump.\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/images\/grasshopper.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"365\" \/>Today would have been the first day of a 30-day social media break for me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m more than two weeks into the break, though.<\/p>\n<p>I did it sooner than planned because I was dared.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>The Power of a Dare<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>I like a good dare. In my early 20s, I went vegetarian for years on a dare. One stormy night, I gave a homeless guy who was convinced he was Jesus and could cure sick people with his own brand of nanotechnology a ride to his destiny on a dare. I drank a tank of sea monkeys on a dare.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always found there to be a certain satisfaction, or at the very least a good story, on the other side of a dare.<\/p>\n<p>So when friends dared me to take a social media break right away when I mentioned that I was just <em>thinking <\/em>about taking a break (it went up to a triple-dog dare in no time), I had to not only do it, but go bigger than just 30 days. Right now, the plan is to go 50 days.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing that I&#8217;m writing even <em>more <\/em>than usual since starting the break, I&#8217;m toying with going 100 days.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Easier than I Expected<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>While I&#8217;m not addicted to my iPhone (I rarely send text messages and don&#8217;t talk on the phone much), I <em>like <\/em>having the Internet and all it offers in my pocket at all times. I like that I can discover a book on a morning break, buy the ebook, and start reading it right away. And yep&#8211;I like being able to see what friends are up to by checking Facebook, Twitter, and Google+.<\/p>\n<p>So I thought taking a break would be difficult. Once I removed all the apps from my phone and set the sites to <em>not <\/em>notify me as updates came through, though, it became easy.<\/p>\n<p>The reflex to check social media sites has been replaced by the reflex to keep working. Just like it <em>used <\/em>to be.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>I Triple-Dog Dare You<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Since mentioning the 50-day social media break, some people have expressed interest in taking a break themselves&#8230;but they find it hard.<\/p>\n<p>In a weird way, a dare is permission.<\/p>\n<p>So I dare you&#8230;right now, turn off all your social media notifications. Post to all the social media accounts that take time away from writing that you&#8217;re taking September off. Remove the apps from your phone if your phone is your weakness like it was for me.<\/p>\n<p>Then&#8230;log out of all the accounts.<\/p>\n<p>I triple-dog dare you to take the leap! And bet that within a week into however long you decide to step away that you&#8217;ll see yourself being a more productive writer than when you&#8217;re checking Twitter several times an hour.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today would have been the first day of a 30-day social media break for me. 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