{"id":2575,"date":"2011-01-31T10:57:34","date_gmt":"2011-01-31T16:57:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=2575"},"modified":"2011-01-31T10:57:34","modified_gmt":"2011-01-31T16:57:34","slug":"monday-motivation-be-quiet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2011\/01\/31\/monday-motivation-be-quiet\/","title":{"rendered":"Monday Motivation: Be Quiet"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-family: georgia;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"A pair of speakers on a pole.\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/images\/speakers.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"335\" \/>&#8220;I think it&#8217;s bad to talk about one&#8217;s present work,  for it spoils something at the root of the creative act.\u00a0 It discharges  the tension.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8211; Norman Mailer<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>My wife and I have a rule: I&#8217;m not allowed to talk about a work in progress.<\/p>\n<p>If I have something I need to talk through, I have a writing group I can go to. (But really &#8212; I don&#8217;t talk about story details with them, either.)<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t talk about what I&#8217;m working on because then the story&#8217;s told.<\/p>\n<p>How can I know if something works if a reader knows what&#8217;s coming?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Why Do We Talk?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Usually when we want to talk about a story it&#8217;s because we&#8217;re not being that productive. We want that rush that comes from doing something creative without doing the actual work!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s much easier to talk about a story than to write a story; I hear people talk about ideas all the time.<\/p>\n<p>In most cases, the people who talk the most are the people who rarely finish things.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Shut Up<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If you find yourself wanting to talk about stories all the time, step back and look at your production.<\/p>\n<p>We all have that need to get a story out, and if we&#8217;re not writing stories, we tend to talk about them &#8212; even though the satisfaction from talking about ideas isn&#8217;t the same as actually <em>finishing <\/em>a story.<\/p>\n<p>If you genuinely have to talk something through, find one or two people who understand what you need and talk about just the <em>one thing<\/em> that&#8217;s giving you problems. Don&#8217;t talk about anything else because the moment you do, you give away more than just what happens &#8212; you give away the reason for people to read what you write.<\/p>\n<p>Why would I want to read your mystery if I know who did it, why they did it, and what happens to them in the end?<\/p>\n<p>There are more people who talk about ideas than people who actually finish things.<\/p>\n<p>Keep quiet, stay productive, and be the person who hands over a stack of finished pages instead of lungfuls of hot air&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 *\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 *<\/p>\n<p>Image by <a title=\"Link to dobrych's Flickr feed.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/dobrych\/\">dobrych<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I think it&#8217;s bad to talk about one&#8217;s present work, for it spoils something at the root of the creative act.\u00a0 It discharges the tension.&#8221; &#8211; Norman Mailer My wife and I have a rule: I&#8217;m not allowed to talk about a work in progress. 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