{"id":2128,"date":"2010-11-08T10:51:22","date_gmt":"2010-11-08T15:51:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/?p=2128"},"modified":"2010-11-08T10:51:22","modified_gmt":"2010-11-08T15:51:22","slug":"monday-motivation-what-to-do-when-you-hit-a-wall","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2010\/11\/08\/monday-motivation-what-to-do-when-you-hit-a-wall\/","title":{"rendered":"Monday Motivation: What To Do When You Hit a Wall"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"A brick wall.\" src=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/images\/brickwall.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"373\" \/>There&#8217;s nothing worse than hitting a wall when things have been going well with your writing.<\/p>\n<p>One day the words flow, and then BOOM! your nose is flat, you&#8217;re on your butt, and you&#8217;re looking up at a challenge that seems impossible.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you came flying out of the starting blocks for <a title=\"Link to the NaNoWriMo website.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nanowrimo.org\">NaNoWriMo<\/a> and hitting 1,667 words a day isn&#8217;t as easy as it was the first week when everything was shiny and new&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you <a title=\"Link to The Juggling Writer article about getting out of a writing rut.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2010\/10\/22\/stuck-in-a-rut-try-something-new\/\">hit a rut<\/a> and now feel stuck&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you just don&#8217;t feel like writing&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What To Do When You Hit a Wall<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>There are only a handful of choices available when you&#8217;re faced with a wall in the way of what you&#8217;d rather be doing.<\/p>\n<p>Many people choose the following options:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They spend time walking around it, not sure how long the wall might be.<\/li>\n<li>They try climbing and risk a fall.<\/li>\n<li>They spend the time shredding their hands trying to dig beneath the wall.<\/li>\n<li>They just give up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The funny thing: many times, the wall isn&#8217;t as tough as it looks.<\/p>\n<p>If a wall is on your way, why not give yourself credit and go <em>through<\/em> it?<\/p>\n<h2><strong>A Tale of Two Artists<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>I recently chatted online with two artists I look up to. We chatted about last week&#8217;s entry about <a title=\"Link to The Juggling Writer Article about healthy arrogance.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2010\/11\/05\/the-power-of-healthy-arrogance\/\">healthy arrogance<\/a>. The artists talked about how they suffer from moments of low self esteem.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard for me to look at the things they do and imagine them feeling like their art isn&#8217;t all it can be, but I understand that feeling. I&#8217;ve had times when I doubted I had what it took to hold my own with the writers I look up to.<\/p>\n<p>When I look back at those times with a clear mind, it&#8217;s not that I wasn&#8217;t talented; I was depressed. Everywhere I looked, I saw walls I knew I could climb or go through, but I was just so damn tired of always climbing and knocking things down.<\/p>\n<p>It was easier to just sit and not produce.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is &#8212; and this is what I chatted about with these artists &#8212; once you let that doubt take hold, it&#8217;s a downward spiral.<\/p>\n<p>In the words of one of the artists, the mighty <a title=\"Link to Ray Frenden's website.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.frenden.com\">Ray Frenden<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a trap. Self doubt produces less work, less work produces self  doubt.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The trick, then, is to keep working &#8212; even if you don&#8217;t feel inspired.<\/p>\n<p>Much of my current novel was written during a couple bouts with a tumor in my head. I hated what I produced at the time.<\/p>\n<p>Once I looked at it with a clear mind, I realized it was the best thing I&#8217;ve ever written.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Maybe It&#8217;s Not Even a Wall<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Many times, the wall that we think is a problem with our writing has <em>nothing <\/em>to do with writing.<\/p>\n<p>We often find it hard to write not because writing is hard, but because there are other things in our lives affecting us.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;ve been working overtime at work and feel like spending an hour writing during lunch is yet <em>another <\/em>hour of work of some sort, when all you want to do is rest.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you have too much going on after work that demands your attention. (While I believe most people can find <a title=\"Link to The Juggling Writer article about 10 ways to write everyday.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.christophergronlund.com\/blog\/tjw\/2009\/09\/17\/10-ways-to-write-everyday\/\">an hour a day to write<\/a>, sometimes weeks or months pass by without writing.)<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re just thinking about the &#8220;state of the world&#8221; and bummed. (In which case, you should get out and do things you love doing; get out with loved ones who remind you that &#8212; at least where you are &#8212; it may not be all <em>that <\/em>bad.)<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to not knock yourself for what you <em>haven&#8217;t<\/em> written. If you&#8217;re thinking about what you haven&#8217;t written, it means that someplace deep down you still want to write; it means somewhere deep down there&#8217;s still a glimmer of hope.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just a matter of time before you get back to it.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Tearing Down the Wall<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing about tearing down the wall: you only have to do it once to remind yourself that you&#8217;re able to do it.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be the first to admit there are times I get tired of knocking down walls, but the more walls I&#8217;ve torn down, the happier I&#8217;ve become.<\/p>\n<p>Stop the rough time once, and you can stop it again and again&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>This Week<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;re having a rough time this week, I wish you luck in pushing through your wall and getting back to doing what makes you happy.<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t do it this week, know there are people who understand.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re still looking at the wall next month, talk to somebody.<\/p>\n<p>But remember this: if you&#8217;re feeling down because you&#8217;ve hit a wall that&#8217;s prevented you from writing, it means you&#8217;re at least still <em>thinking <\/em>about writing.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s when you stop thinking about writing that you need to be concerned&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 *\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 *<\/p>\n<p>Since struggling with things is on my mind after having the discussion with the two artists I mentioned, on Wednesday I plan to write about ways to climb out of a hole, and Friday I plan to write about the strength of your own wall.<\/p>\n<p>I hope everybody facing a big wall this week finds a way through it.<\/p>\n<p>And if not, <a title=\"Link to Nick Woolsey's &quot;Dervishly Yers&quot; fire spinning video.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=GYs8nVEGii0\">this video<\/a> and <a title=\"Link to Nick Woolsey's message to creative people suffering with depression.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=k-wsVvP6tGY\">this video<\/a> always cheer me up!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s nothing worse than hitting a wall when things have been going well with your writing. 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